Brahmin is the one who has Gunasilalu, who speaks truth, who has dhaya, who has tapasu, who has suchi, ahimsa, who has gnanam, etc (Anyone who has these qualities is the brahman based on veda dharmam to count papa punyalu irrespective of any caste).
Guru is the one who got pavitrata by speaking always truth(Not what he says truth) and having purity in inner sense(Not what he/she appears to outside) and having true knowledge(How the universe formed, what is real dharma, what is the saramsam of vedam, knowing about ultimate god, Who am i actually, etc) is only the guru. -Satyamuche pavitramaina anthakarana galavadu, gnani ayinavadu matrame guruvu. For example As per me, till now I have never seen any guru in the earth. The person who outside acts like guru is mostly Fraudulent person. Real Guru does not come into the peoples and it is 99.999999% difficult to find real Guru. Real Guru even if somebody gives 1 lakh crores also, he does not help them for money. only fake gurus only do things for money. Fake gurus really appears to the people that they are 100% real only and they always used to act without any doubt to peoples. Real gurus will appears to the outside world like how Dattatreya used to appears to the peoples initially. Dattatreya used to appears to the people like a begger, like living with a vesya, like drinking a alcohol. Still Dattatreya is guru. But real gurus will not help the peoples. they help very rare one in more than a lakh like that only. This is because they see all aspects of the targeted person like what he has done in the past and why he has done like that, what is his inner purity, whether he is acting or really behaving like that, he came only for his needs only, whether he dos wrong things for money, like that so may things they will see. Real God will not appear to any fake gurus like this. Even if any person says that I have seen that god, this god, that is all bullshit. Few fake people will say i am guru, hence what ever i say, it will happen, in that case , he will use chemicals to give disease to them and also he uses his and his backend team money to give freely to others to get certain designed illegal activities. based on his words it will not become true. they will become true because he only does that wrong to you from backend illegally by bribing the peoples.
There is no hard rules in dharma. It is difficult to explain also dharma. what you feel is also may not be dharma. What i feel also may not be dharma, You may not be correct in judging others based on what you see, I may not be correct in judging others based on what i see. But trusting swadharmam is always good than paradharam.
Hence live without fear of God or without fear of brahman or without fear of guru.
If 100 words story is given to one person to spread, then after passing 5000 years, at least it would have gone through more then 100 persons by now. if anyone in these 100 persons are malicious persons, then what is the guarantee that, actual story exists in the current world. why we should not think that any of the persons out of 100 have changed the story?, even if we think that each person changed two words, by now actual story itself changed. Hence trust yourself and do the good things rather then trusting malicious persons. Do good things to human beings, then even if you do not pray the god, god will be happy. if you do bad things to humans and if you pray the god, god will not be happy.
People will say that, i am getting that pain, why such pains will come is some Powers will come into the body, Even if someone has power to remove all these powers to destroy his pains by himself. Then it is something like if one person defeated, then he brings all of his rest friends, like that only all powers will get united and comes into the body of person who has power to remove the powers, but such kind of persons are very rare. and they will not remove any other persons pains. they will help only themselves. May be they help one in a lakh but after testing them for years continuously. Even if they help by mistake due to other person has acted like a mitra to get benefits from him, after they came to know that other person done mitra droham to him, they give immediate sap to them so that their entire life will be destroyed. Hence it is always better not to do mitra droham for temparary benefits. Those who help others, may be for benefited persons that may be temporary.
You yourself think, will you do freely anything to anyone, if you are doing something means, something you may expect right. If nothing wants from other person freely, Then he do anything to anyone. he will not do even if other person gives 1 lakh crores. Hence use the mind here to understand the concept.
Source : Siva puranam.
